How to know if you should manifest your specific person

There's a lot of info out there on how to manifest a specific person, but I think it's important to slow down and ponder if that's really the best option for you. This isn't going to be a post full of negativity against manifesting SPs. Quite the opposite! By becoming absolutely certain that this person is exactly what you want, you will have a much easier time committing to living in the end with them.

Nothing pulls you out of certainty of your relationship like going back and forth on what you really want. One moment, being with your SP is a done deal, and another moment, you may want nothing to do with them. You're certain they're yours one day, and another day, you're considering dating someone new. Honestly, this is all normal and natural in the process of becoming aware of your power. Your limiting beliefs and emotions around them are coming up to be processed so you can make the best decision possible.

I just want you to know there's no wrong or right answer here. Whether you manifest that person or someone new, it's all abundance. There are literally infinite ways to live an amazing life. You're God of your life, so you can have a great relationship with anyone you want. As you feel more powerful, you become more aware of your many options for love. You start to feel more deserving of only the best from people. Now the question is whether you want to persist in the best version of your SP or persist in a new relationship altogether. It is time to make the most empowered choice.

Some questions to ask yourself to help you choose:

Does this person really check all the boxes of what I want in a partner?

I'm talking personality wise, because that's pretty constant. If you feel like they are lacking in major ways as a person, consider that there are plenty of other people you would like better. Consider if you only want to manifest them because it's the only example of love you know.

Do I feel like I have plenty of dating options?

The real question is whether you feel like you can manifest whoever you'd like. Sometimes people only want to manifest a specific person because deep down they don't believe anyone else would love them. If you feel like you could really have anyone, and you still want your specific person, by all means persist with that person.

Am I willing to let go of our old story? (If you have a history)

It's perfectly valid to walk away from anyone you have a rough history with. Sometimes it feels more empowered to let that person go and get into a new relationship. Maybe that person doesn't feel special enough to create something new with. At the same time, the past only has as much power as you give it. It is important to note that you have infinite probable pasts that are all equally real. So, the reality where your SP always loved you and always will becomes your new experience if you persist in the end of being with that SP. Maybe you think whatever happened between you is not a big deal or you are willing to jump to a different quantum past, present, and future with your specific person. In either case, you would have to honestly and truly let go of that old story in order to successfully persist in the end with SP.

Most importantly, what do I really want in my heart?

There's a lot of opinions and made up rules about manifesting SPs that you have zero obligation to take on. For example, you may hear that manifesting them is an inherently disempowered choice. Maybe it's wrong, going against their free will, or violating a soul contract. At the end of the day, you are the God of your life, and you get to decide what's best for you. Only you know what makes your heart happy. Feel perfectly free to ignore others' rules about who and what you should manifest. Others' doubts, insecurities, and morality about love have nothing to do with you. Feel free to read my posts about why manifesting SPs is normal and okay and does my specific person have free will?

The Law is the only constant - what you assume to be true is true. All the other conditions, rules, moralities, processes, superstitions, and techniques are all just assumptions that the Law is filtered through. None of them are inherently true, even if the person saying them is very sure of themselves. If someone believes manifesting specific things is the best, that's their truth. If someone believes going general with manifesting is the best, that's their truth. So, declare your truth. Persist in what you prefer. Because you are the power that makes anything true for you.

If you determined that manifesting your SP is right for you, I intend that this post helps you be even more certain about being that person who's with them. If this relationship is deep down what you desire from an empowered place, then I encourage you to persist fully with that person and don't look back. Give it 100%. Live entirely in your imagination with the most ideal version of them. Trust that the relationship you imagine is the only reality. And watch as your imagination pushes out the most beautiful relationship into the 3D physical world.