Does my specific person have free will?

"Your specific person has no free will" is a phrase parroted a ton in the manifesting / Law of Attraction / Law of Assumption community. I really want to get into why this is such a popular idea and if it's even true.

By now, you've probably heard our entire physical reality, including people, is simply a reflection of our beliefs. This is true! The only Source of reality is who you are aware of being. If you are aware of being the person who is with their specific person (SP), then that's what you'll see reflected in every day life.

So, just because SP reflects your awareness of being (your identity), does that mean SP has no free will? No. Your SP still has free will. This is a good thing! Let me explain why.

There are infinite versions of you and infinite versions of SP in your respective parallel realities. You can only and will only experience the versions of your SP that correspond to who you most strongly identify as. You have free will to choose your identity at any moment. That means if you identify as "I am with my SP," then you are in the reality where you are with SP (even if it seems to take some time to see them conform).

You exist in every possible relationship reality either single, with SP, or with literally any other person. Each relationship arrangement has a version of you that uses their free will to exist in that reality. At the same time, each reality version of SP is freely willing to occupy each of their own realities. Essentially, the single version of you is using their free will to choose being single and the coupled version of you is using their free will to choose being coupled.

Let's get back to the reality where you are aware of being "I am with SP."

You use your free will to select the reality where SP also uses their free will to be together with you.

Be declaring that you and SP are together, you will always meet the version of them that loves and adores you by their own choice. Remember, there are infinite version of you AND your SP. You can only experience the version of them that fits your definitions of reality.

Do you really want to live in a reality where SP would only choose you against their will? Of course not! Anyone would be lucky to be with you!

A specific person is not some puppet that only moves how you say so. It only appears this way because they have the same name, the same face, and they only behave how you define them to be. They appear to have no free will of their own because theirs always matches yours. However, as you just learned, you are interacting with the version of them that freely chooses the circumstances that you selected.

The idea of "SP has no free will" reflects a belief that there is really someone out there that has to change in order to get what you want. The version of SP that isn't with you can't be changed to the version that is with you. They didn't change because they're two different people. You became a different person, which connected you with a different partner!

Your SP is in their own reality bubble with their version of you. You might be together, apart, or maybe you have never met from their perspective. Don't worry about it because you could never experience their reality bubble from their point of view. Everything you experience will always reflect your own definitions of reality.

Just because your SP has free will, it doesn't take away from the fact that you are the only God, Source, or operant power of your reality. Everything goes your way and it always will. And SP will always be on board with your decision.